HOW TO TELL CHILDREN ABOUT SEX

Parents - the first and most important teacher of the child. They give him a wide range of knowledge about the world, reading his books, answering a great many questions, sometimes confounding. And perhaps the most tricky questions from children, causing an adult sense of confusion and bewilderment: "Where did I come?".


If your 3-year-old son asked why he went to the toilet is not like a girl, you can be sure: it develops according to age and moderately curious. Around this age children begin to distinguish each other by sex. A common situation - a curious child, the look that you are trying in vain to translate into a lyrical landscape, asks: "What's that doing two funny dog and why they get on each other?" You can, of course, respond that they are playing "horse." But it is better using the opportune moment to explain that this is how they appear puppies. And do not go into details, if the child does not ask about them. And if you ask, tell him at the level of his understanding about such language, how you would explain, for example, the device clock. In this case, note that the latter is for him no less interesting than the question on which you have a sharp burst of adrenaline in the blood. And carried away, do not confuse language with an adult child and not frighten a child for life with tales of furious sperm, which is doing its utmost to pierce the unsuspecting egg.
Moment when your 4 - year-old boy asks about the mystery of birth, must be used. Otherwise it will try to get answers from other sources - ranging from movies and ending with "experimental games with other children. Oh, these games are children whose parents have no time to explain to them that in life there are things are not shameful, but intimate, relating to the relationship only two that are close to each other adults! 

And that, actually, to talk about?
Talking with your child about sex should be in a language appropriate to his age. At 3, 4 or 5 years in question, where there are children who can calmly replied: "From a mom's tummy. Kids there safe and warm, and they grow up under my mother's heart." For the little it will be enough.
The question, "how the child is born?" - Answer: "My mother in the abdomen is a special hole, and through him with the baby doctor chosen to light." - "I want to see!" - Says the child. - "But this is impossible. All of the body have special places that no one should skip." By the way, here is a good idea to ask if he knows what this place.
Next question: "What a child gets to her mother in the stomach?" On this, as a rule, ask the older children. Answer: "My mother appears in a tummy seed from which grows the baby. When my mom and dad are sleeping together, they embrace, and seeds from the Pope goes to his mother." At the age of 10-11 years may have to explain exactly how it works: "When Mom and Dad want to have a child because they love each other, they gently hug and kiss before falling asleep, and then the seed of the father's penis through a hole bottom of the mother's abdomen is inside her body. It's a brand new life. "
And most importantly, how many times your child may ask you to their secret questions, always answer him calmly and confidently.