Saturday, October 16, 2010

The importance of love and affection

Every mom knows how important it is to love and attention to your baby. And today on the blog of practical advice, we are talking about the importance of love, attention and kindness to our kids:)
And his experience with us today is divided Maya Belovusyak:
"In our family a kiss - not just touch lips. This is a manifestation of love, caring, forgiveness and understanding.Nowadays, many parents think that boys often can not kiss, because they grow weak, "my mother's son." They believe in educating the future of men should not be sentimentality, and replace them with discipline. But children (girls and boys) so that the exercise of parental love! When they do something wrong, most of them think that they at that time did not like. Therefore, it is very important for parents to take their child for what it is.Children who are respected learn to respect others. Kids, surrounded by love, never hurt others. But those children who do not feel the love of family, his bad behavior try to attract attention and do everything to get noticed. Such a child comes to distrust his parents, he gradually moved away from them and turn in on themselves.For children it is important to a sense of contact with relatives. No wonder they are asking people: "Hold me", "Kiss me." These emotional request to perform independently because if you are happy child at the moment or not.Every child has the right to be loved, to express their thoughts, be heard and receive daily verification of parental love - kissing.In our family the child trying to kiss her as often as possible: when meeting and parting, as praise, when he was scared at bedtime, in the form of games and fun.I noticed that our son is not afraid to speak their mind. He himself came to believe that fighting and weapons - the bad stuff. He sympathizes with those who weep, and never show aggression.Parenting with love does not mean that the child is allowed to all but is so wise that allows children to make mistakes, learn from them and still be everyone's favorite.Dear Parents, love your kids and do not be afraid to kiss them once more! Believe me, the harm it can bring. "And here are a few tips:
1. Be sure to consult your child by name before you want to tell him something new and important.2. The kid learned to listen to you, you need to find time to talk. Quarrel - not the best time to accustom to hearing.
3. Be with your child in one place (for example, in one room). He will be much easier to listen to you if you speak softly and not yell something from another room.

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